Over time, however, we have the opportunity to learn to accept ourselves. People who have done this are confident in their true abilities; they do not feel the need to create a facade to impress other people. They are concerned with whether their actions produce worthwhile results rather than with how they are seen by others.
然而，随着时间的推移，我们开始有机会去学习认同自己。懂得如何认同自己的人，表明对自己的真实能力有信心；他们觉得没有必要去制造假象，让自己给其它人留下深刻印象。他们所关心的只是自己的行为能否产生有价值的结果，而不在乎别人会怎么看他们。